Hello, I’m JR Weaver, an Army veteran who, like many others, once had big plans for life after service. I imagined getting my degree, settling down, raising a family, and living the American dream. But soon after leaving the military, I found myself struggling with something I hadn’t anticipated—undiagnosed PTSD and a sense of losing who I was. I was trying to deal with it on my own, without asking for help, and it wasn’t long before my dreams became nightmares.

You don’t have to be a veteran to understand this struggle. Maybe you’ve watched someone you love—a parent, a sibling, a friend—battle these same feelings of loss and confusion. Perhaps you’ve noticed them turning to substances to cope, or maybe you’ve faced these challenges yourself. Mental health and substance use disorders don’t discriminate; they can affect anyone, and they often go hand in hand.

I started drinking heavily, and it wasn’t long before that led me down a path that soon became my prison. My life spiraled out of control as I searched for anything to numb the pain for a few brief moments. This is a reality many people, not just veterans, face. Whether it’s alcohol, drugs, trauma or something else, the struggle is real, and it can feel impossible to break free or even believe that you deserve more out of life.

But there is hope. In 2017, I reached a breaking point and knew I needed help. I turned to the Ralph H. Johnson VA Medical Center, where I found the support and treatment I needed. It wasn’t easy, but I got through it with the help of other veterans who understood what I was going through. That experience changed my life, and I realized that the key to recovery is community and support. One of the reasons that I believe in paying it forward to other veterans.

That’s why I’m so passionate about “Serving Those Who Served.” This program is more than just a weekly support meeting—it’s a lifeline for veterans and their families. It’s a place where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through, share your experiences, and find the resources you need to start healing. Whether you’re a veteran or someone who loves a veteran, we’re here to help.

Mental health and substance use disorders affect entire families, not just the individual. If you’re a family member of a veteran, you might be struggling to understand what they’re going through or how to help. “Serving Those Who Served” is here for you too. We offer a space where you can learn, connect, and find support for yourself and your loved ones.

No one should have to face these challenges alone. Whether you’re a veteran, a family member, or someone battling your own demons, remember that recovery is possible. It starts with reaching out and finding the right support.

Join us at our support group every Wednesday at 6 p.m., starting August 28th.

Let’s work together to build a brighter future—for ourselves, our loved ones, and our community.